Birthdays feel so personal, yet they're shared by all of us. We light candles, make a wish, give or receive gifts — often without thinking twice about why we do it. As an artist, I'm endlessly curious about rituals like this. Where did these customs come from? What do they mean? And how can we honor them in a more symbolic, creative way?
Let’s take a quiet walk through the roots of birthday traditions — from ancient astrology to modern gifting — and maybe you’ll start to see your own birthday through a new lens.
Ancient Beginnings: Birthdays as Protection
In many ancient cultures, birthdays weren’t about cake — they were about spiritual safety. The day of your birth was considered a powerful, sometimes dangerous turning point. People believed you were more vulnerable on this day, and that special rituals were needed to ward off evil spirits.
In ancient Greece, candles were lit on moon-shaped cakes offered to Artemis. The glow was meant to represent the moon’s light and protect the celebrant.
Astrology, Fate & the Moment of Birth
The moment you were born wasn’t just a biological event — it was astrologically charged. Ancient astrologers mapped the stars to reveal your fate, character, and tendencies. This tradition lives on in zodiac signs, birthstones, and more.
That’s why I love weaving birth months and star signs into my art. It’s more than aesthetic — it’s a way to reflect who we are at a soul level.
Blowing Out Candles: Wishes, Fire, and Breath
One of the most universal birthday rituals — blowing out candles — is also one of the most ancient.
Some trace it back to pagan fire rituals, where smoke carried prayers to the gods. Others say it evolved from making a wish in secrecy and blowing it into the world. Either way, it’s intimate and symbolic. Breath, fire, and hope all bundled into one.
I love thinking of this act as a form of invisible art — a moment where intention meets air.
Gifts: Symbolic Offerings from Heart to Hand
Gift-giving wasn’t always about material things. In many traditions, especially in pagan and folk cultures, gifts were symbolic exchanges — tokens of connection, health, and fortune.
A handpicked flower. A small handmade talisman. A note written with care. I try to keep this spirit alive in my own work — creating art that feels meaningful, personal, and emotionally resonant.
As someone who makes art with symbolism and emotion at its core, birthdays remind me that we’re not just aging — we’re evolving. Each year adds another layer to who we are. That’s worth honoring. And if you’re looking for a way to mark that meaningfully — with softness, symbolism, or soul — art can be your offering.
Thanks for sharing this little ritual with me.
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